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Feeding Program: A STORY OF HOPE BEYOND BROKEN BONES

By Verna Mae Divina

Cedric: The Boy with Fragile Bones

Cedric Cahilig is a 6-year-old boy living in Payatas and a beneficiary of our feeding center in St. Benedict Chapel. Unlike other kids of his age who are happily playing outside while chasing each other, Cedric is usually left sitting on the corner of their house while carefully watching them. He is always wondering about how it feels to be able to do the same thing. He is being restricted to do those activities because of his condition called RICKETS.

Rickets is a disease of infants and children that disrupts the normal bone function. It is the reason of the bending and distortion of their bones. It is a condition usually linked to malnutrition.

Due to Rickets disease, Cedric’s bones became too soft and fragile. This resulted to his bowed uneven legs, thickened wrists and ankles, and deformed body. He also has a soft skull which make his head very delicate.

Cedric cannot walk. In order to move to a certain place, Cedric needs to crawl using his arms and limbs. Because his body is always in contact with the ground, he is always left with bruises and scars. He is also restricted to go outside because he might bump into something which can severely break his bones.

Cedric’s teeth also fell out one by one because of his body’s calcium deterioration. The extracted teeth were soft which resembles a marshmallow. Chewing food makes it harder for him. He needs to use the muscles of his gums in order to breakdown the food that he eats.

You can compare Cedric’s height to those of normal 2-year old kids. He is very small and very light. He is classified as an underweight which worsen his condition and affects his fight against rickets disease.

Due to his condition, Cedric’s normal body development was delayed. Cedric can talk, but not as fluent as a normal kid of his age. He was too shy to interact with other people because they might bully him and use his condition to make fun of him.

Cedric is the fourth out of the 5 children of Nanay Karen and Tatay Manuel Cahilig. They are currently renting a small house in Commonwealth, Quezon City. Their main source of income is their father’s job as a messenger. His mother sometimes do sidelines as a nanny of the small children of their relatives for
only P100 a day.

Surprisingly, it is not the first time that their family was struck by the Rickets disease. The first born child of the Cahilig family also suffered from the same illness. And because they do not have enough money to put her in the hospital, buy her medicines and provide her other needs, her health continued to decline and she eventually dies. Because of this misfortune in their family, Nanay Karen promised that she will do everything so that Cedric will not suffer the same fate.

Journey with Payatas Orione Foundation's Feeding Center

Year 2018 when Cedric got accepted in PAOFI’s Feeding Program at the St. Benedict Chapel. Back then, he looked so pale, his skin almost yellowish, and he was very thin. He was very shy and frequently cries because of his aching bones. Cedric’s family even tried to enroll him in a public school but the institution refused to accept him because of his health condition.
 
Every day, Nanay Karen carries Cedric as they walk from their house to the feeding center. Their house is quite far and it is a big challenge for Nanay Karen especially on the rainy days. But because she wanted her son to get the proper nutrition that he needs in order to survive, she endures everything that may hinder her from fulfilling her duty as a mother.
 
At first, it looks like a tough job to help normalize Cedric’s weight. There are times that he cannot eat because he is crying in pain. It also became a big challenge when his teeth started to fell out one by one until there was nothing left. He must always be taken care gently because his bones breaks easily.
 
PAOFI Feeding Volunteers always make sure that Cedric will get enough food to eat. After a few months, his body began to show some improvement. Little by little he gained weight and became more lively and cheerful. Even without his teeth, he can still eat using his gums to break down food. He was able to get the proper nutrition and food that he needs as a growing kid which he cannot get in his home.
 
He became part of different outreach programs conducted by PAOFI. He was able to interact with other kids in Payatas who are also under the Feeding program. Despite of the obvious struggle that he is facing, he was able to socialize and have some fun like a normal kid even just for some time.
 
Right now, Cedric Cahilig is showing signs of development by means of his weight gain. However, it is still clearly not enough to assure his recovery from Rickets. It is just the start towards his journey to healing.

What Does He Need?

Last December 2018, Cedric was again confined at the National Children’s Hospital because of his Rickets disease. He was diagnosed with Pneumonia as part of the complication. He is currently taking up maintenance medicines for his condition. His maintenance medicines were:

  • Calcium Citrate should be taken 3x a day which costs P1, 800 good for 3 months.
  • Calcitriol on the other hand costs P38 per piece and should also be taken 3x a day.
  • He needs to undergo Ionized Calcium Test for his laboratory test every 3 months which costs P1,000.
  • He is also in most need of Vitamin C and Milk for his recovery. Unfortunately, his family could not afford it anymore.
  • A therapy is also essential for him to walk (a free therapy was given by the City Hall but only lasted until March 2019).

Every day, Cedric needs to take all of those prescribed medicines for him. In order to take the huge pills, he will eat them like candies. Medicines do not really taste that good but Cedric just pretend to eat them as sweets. Tests and therapies are different matters but Cedric both need them for his recovery.

As a parent, it is so hard for Mr. and Mrs. Cahilig to witness their son suffer. They wanted to help him but they do not have enough money to provide all the necessary things that Cedric needs. There are times that they feel so hopeless and just wanted to give up. However, whenever they remember what happened to their first child, they become more eager and determined to support Cedric’s journey to fight the Rickets disease.

Despite their struggles financially, the Cahilig family pledged that they will never do anything illegal as a solution to their poverty. Nanay Karen even said that they prefer to beg from other people than to do things that will harm others.

Considering their family’s financial condition, it is a big challenge for them to support Cedric’s medication while also sustaining their growing family. They cannot provide some of his vital needs due to lack of money which hinders the continuous improvement of Cedric’s condition.

feeding cahilig cedric picture

How to Help

We are humbly asking for your help to support the needs of Cedric to fight his disease. He is one of those unfortunate people who cannot earn enough money to survive.

Cedric Cahilig is a very special 6- year old boy from Payatas. He has Rickets disease which made him different from the rest. Right now, he really needs your help. His bones may be broken, but his hopes of recovery will never be shattered. He does not want to cry of pain anymore, he wanted smile and laugh out loud. He wants to be happy and not feel gloomy.

 

Be a reason for his smiles. Give him hope to finish his journey towards recovery. Cedric is an amazing and brave boy worthy of your attention, love, care, and kindness. Be a ray of sunshine in his dark dreary atmosphere.

You can donate in-kind donations

  • Medicines (Calcium Citrate, Calcitriol)
  • Vitamins (Vitamin C)
  • Milk
  • Or any of the stated things above needed for his recovery

If you have other questions or inquiry, you may contact us at:

  • MAIN OFFICE :24 San Juan Evangelista St., Payatas A, Quezon City 1119, Philippines
  • : (02)9718202/0917-8727396/0932-8475502
  • EMAIL: payatas_paofi@yahoo.com
  • WEBSITE: https://www.payatasorionefoundation.com

A small gesture of compassion already means a lot for him and his family. Any help always gets counted. No matter how small your help is, it will always create a huge impact to those who benefited to your kind deeds. Let us spread kindness by helping other people.

St. Luigi Orione once said, “Only Charity will save the world.” Be part of the change and let us help save humanity.